Wednesday, August 19, 2009

MY ANGEL'S BIRTHDAY

Dearest Bheemar,

It is your birthday today.
You've turned one my darling.
And what a beautiful year it has been!
As your Dad puts it, we are truly blessed to have you in our lives.

You have so much goodness and so much love to give.
Life seems so simple and wonderful with you by my side.
You are and will always be the most beautiful part of my life.
Happy birthday my precious little one.
Have a blessed, healthy and happy life.

Love,Your Mum

Sunday, August 9, 2009

TOPSY TURVY

Life for me has turned topsy turvy!

Balaraam has brought about so much changes.

I had forgotten all the downs I had gone through when training Bheemar in the beginning. I forgot finding chewed up telephone wires, ripped cushions, pee & poop on the carpets and etc. I forgot hating myself for having to be so strict with Bheemar and repeating "No" to everything. I forgot struggling to get him to walk calmly next to me during our walks. Forgot so much!

Balaraam has brought back the downs of training a dog or having an untrained dog. Broke down yesterday. Yes! I know! Weak!!!! But I was so heartbroken!

Went out for abt 3 hrs and came back home to find Bheemar's favourite soft toy ripped, two books - one a gift from Mohan & one that belonged to a friend - ripped into pieces!!!!!! He had to choose one that didn't belong to me and one that had more sentimental value to destroy.

Think I forgot what doggies are capable of as Bheemz is such an angel. The only things Bheemz rip are the mail that I'm gonna throw away and egg cartons that we give him specifically to chew on. Sigh!!!!! Furthermore, Bheemar knows how to play with his soft toys. He chews on them but never rip them up. He still has his 1st soft toy in pretty good condition.

I jus hate training because u have to be firm, strict & keep saying no to this and that! No peeing here. No pooping there. No jumping on me. No rough play. No biting this. No chewing that.

Both Mohan & I are struggling emotionally as Balaraam is such a timid dog. He's obviously been abused and quite frankly, the guy is just dying to please us. The problem is he doesn't know how to as yet. Feel like we are bullying the poor fella.

Well it's been about 3 days now. Only 3 days....I believe things will get better with time... At least for Balaraam's sake....

Thursday, August 6, 2009

BALARAAM'S HOMECOMING!!!

He's home!!! Finally!!!

Mohan managed to take time-off and we drove to Doggie Rescue with Bheemar. We reached the shelter by half past 4 in the afternoon and had to wait a short while before Balaraam was brought out.

While waiting we couldn't help but notice some of the other dogs in the shelter. Although they were in a shelter, I couldn't help but notice how lucky they were. They had ample space to run around, toys to play with and kennels to sleep in. To think these dogs may have been put down if not for this shelter...

Barking quite happily at anything that moves!

I fell in love with this dog. If we had bought a house instead of a
townhouse,
I would have probably grabbed him too!!!

Yet another adorable fella!

It must take so much effort, time and absolute dedication from volunteers and workers to keep the place the way it is. Can you imagine the loads of washing that piles up every morning, especially during the cold season? The dogs need to be walked, food needs to be prepared, kennels need to be cleaned, dogs need to be transported for medical treatment, food supplies need to be collected....oh goodness, I'm feeling exhausted just thinking about some of the work that needs to be done there.

I applaud the effort and respect the dedication of all those helping to keep this shelter running. This shelter runs entirely on funds from well-wishers and isn't government funded. I wish I'll be able to do my part for this shelter some day in the near future...... Actually...no.... I wish that the Animals (Regulation of Sale) Bill gets passed, people stop buying/abandoning dog/cats and eventually there comes a day when Monika's Doggie Rescue will have no more doggies to rescue. Now, that'll be perfect! Yes, that's what I wish for.

Coming back to Balaraam, Monika brought him out and we settled some last minute stuff pertaining to the adoption. We also got the boys sweaters for our early morning walks. The colours were a little terrible but the proceeds from the sale goes to the shelter. Plus they were far more affordable than those found in pet shops. In all, still a good buy :)

We bid farewell to Monika and left the shelter. Clad in his new sweater, Balaraam took his first steps towards his forever home...with us & Bheemar close by his side :)

The drive was a little torturous for Balaraam. We were stuck in a peak hour jam and the journey took a little more than an hour. Plus Bheemar couldn't keep his paws off Balaraam. I had to hold Bheemar down for most part of the journey so that he doesn't smother Balaraam.

The best part was watching Balaraam take his first sniff of his new home. All my anxiety about him missing the shelter vanished as he very excitedly checked out the whole house. It truly looked like he knew the difference between a shelter and a home. He looked happy with this home. Most importantly, he really seemed pleased with his new family.

I am so thankful!!!

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

PREPARING FOR THE ARRIVAL

I've been so excited the past few days. I thought of the doggie and missed him everyday since we left Doggie Rescue last Friday. I've been diligently shopping and preparing for his arrival.

The first task was to find him a name. Homer was a big no-no! At least for me! Mohan was quite tempted to keep the name the same since he dearly idolizes Homer from The Simpsons. Anyway it took us a couple of hours to find him a suitable name but the decision was unanimous.

  • He is about a week or two older than Bheemar.
  • He is super strong - managed to pull Mohan so hard that Mohan had to run behind him.
  • He got Bheemar to play a little gentler within minutes.
Considering what little we know of him, we regard him as the the strong and powerful elder brother who'll keep Bheemar out of mischief. Hence, we couldn't think of a more suitable name than Balaraam for our new arrival :) BALARAAM BALARAAM BALARAAM

Balaraam & Krishna

Once the name was settled, the shopping followed. I got lots of food, biscuits, treats, harness for Balaraam, food bowls, retractable leads and a bed. I've even got new collar tags for both doggies with their names and our numbers engraved. The tags arrived via mail in separate envelopes addressed to them. Their first official mail! Gonna keep the envelopes!

The Engraved Collar Tag

A Very Grumpy and Sleepy Model with the New Collar Tag
(He's wearing my favourite collar. Need to find one more for Balaraam.)

The 3m Retractable Leads

I've been eying those leads for some time now and have finally gotten my hands on them. I bought identical leads for both of them, just like the bowls and the collar tags. Haven't been able to find similar collars yet but I'm sure I'll hunt them down soon.

Ceramic Bowls

My favourite Model with Bowls (He volunteered to pose for this pic)


The bed is big enough for the two of them to cuddle in or stretch and snooze. It is definitely of good quality and I believe, it is pretty durable. The mattress can be used both sides - one for winter and one for summer.

Mattress with Summer side up

I've also been reading up quite a bit about keeping and training two dogs. I've praying real hard that both my boys will get along and be happy always. I hope that the new guy adopts well to us and doesn't miss the Doggie Rescue. I've been sending all my positive thoughts and prayers to the Universe. Hope my genie out there is listening....

Monday, August 3, 2009

OUR CHOICE

Looks like Mohan & I have finally found our home...well, it's not ours yet but it could well be if everything turns out good.

You know how it is sometimes...there are those choices that you make with little doubts naggin at the back of your mind...and then there are those that you jus know with your heart & mind that you've got make. Well, this choice was something like that.

We weren't hopin for much when we drove to view this property initially. We hadn't even liked the pictures of the property posted on the real estate website. We were also not too happy with the fact that it was in Blacktown - a suburb that we've avoided even when looking for rental home, thanks to its notorious reputation for crime. Another issue was the fact that it was a townhouse and not a house - meaning we'll incur strata costs, restrictions on pets and probably a smaller yard space. The only reason I even considered this property was the the price tag - $349k. That was about all the good it had going for it.

So there we were, driving to the place quite reluctantly until we noticed that as we got closer to the place, the quality of houses got better (an indication of safer neighbourhood). As we turned into our street, we were greeted by pretty huge beautiful houses with cars parked along the street. We had just entered a section of Blacktown that we didn't know existed. An area with more affluent people. Almost no vandalism and streets safe enough for cars to be parked. We were pleasantly surprised and definitely relieved.


The townhouse was in a complex located slightly uphill at the end of the street. The 12 townhouses in the complex were in good condition regardless of the fact that they were about 8 years old. We met the agent, Mel (a migrant from Hong Kong) who took us into the house.


The house sat well with both of us almost immediately. Small cosy living and dining area that leads to the courtyard. The kitchen was on the right, next to the dining area and was also pretty tiny. A door in the kichen led to the garage. So if I don't have space to store stuff in the kitchen, I may have to resort to putting them in the garage. A mini laundry and toilet were located right at the end of the kitchen.

We liked the courtyard altho the size was a kinda small. A small yard is good for Mohan & I coz it means less mowing but poor Bheemar may not exactly have tat much space to run about with his buddy.



The 2nd level led us to 3 rooms. Master bed room was a good sized room but the other two were a small. There was a separate toilet and a bathroom, both clean and in good condition too. The view from the master bed room and study room was nice since the townhouse was on higher ground.

My only issue was that the whole house was carpeted! Even the staircase! Think of the vacuuming!!!!! With two dogs that'll be happily moutling everday! Just thinking of it makes me exhausted. Currently, we have parquet flooring in our rental place and I vacuum almost everyday. Scary!!! However, the carpets are in gd condition and I have no heart to rip up something that is perfectly fine right now and spend 10k for another flooring.

Oh and one more thing....the carpet is blue. Yes, didn't look so blue in the pics but yup, it is defintely blue.

Over the next few days, we drove around the neighbourhood a couple of times. There is a very nice park between the main road and the back of the townhouse. One of our favourite feature is the tennis court right at the back. It is less than a min walk away. Finally! Been wanting to regularly play tennis for ages.

The neighbourhood is perfect for taking our dogs for a walk. A 5 minutes walk down the hill brings us to a lovely park with a lake. Can spend time watching the swans, ducks, geese & more swimmin or jus sun bathin.

Two problems tho - VANDALISM!!!!! Grrrrr..... So much! On the floor, the seats etc etc. Wish I could just paint over the mess and make it all beautiful again! The other problem was the lake....a bit filthy at one corner. Hope the council cleans it up regularly.

However, the other side of the park, away from the lake, is very beautiful, quiet and green. It was clean too. Perfect for nice long walks!

As for the other amenties, Woolies (supermarket) is a min drive away. Can walk too but must walk uphill on way home - mite a bit too challengin carrying groceries. Two bus stops abt 3 min walk away each. Buses go to Westpoint Blacktown. This shopping centre is huge. The train station and bus interchange are next to it. Very much like Jurong Pt wid all the essentials and more. No cinema tho. I can walk to Westpoint if I want. It should be a 15 to 20 min walk. It's near and yet not too near. The distance is just right.

There is a drive thru cinema close to the townhouse too. Can drive there wid de doggies if dun feel like leaving them at home. Motorways as well as highways close by.

The more time we spent checkin out the house and neighbourhood, the more we began to favour it. We didn't even bargain hard coz we tot the place was worth every penny and agreed on $340k. Mohan's parents & bro's family came to check out the townhouse too. Besides the comment that the kitchen may be too small, it was the general consensus that it was a good buy.

However, we faced some issues with the Strata getting approval to keep dogs in the property. Took forever to settle the stuff. I know people take it easy in OZ but sometimes, it seems like they take it a bit too easy. It seems like if you want something done, you have to chase for it yourself...and you REALLY need to chase. It is definitely getting to both of us.

Well, after so much chasing of so many people for so many different things, we are close to seeing the end of the process. We are still awaiting loan approval as well as letter from Strata stating that we are allowed to keep dogs. The best part about the letter is that it can be done in a day and we've been waiting for it since the 21st of July. A good ten days now. Once these two comes thru, the townhouse will be ours...well mostly it belongs to the bank....but yeah, still ours.

A choice both of us made together without any doubts - just like the car, Bheemar, Balaraam & their names :) I can't wait to get my hands on it!

Friday, July 31, 2009

LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

We went to Monika's Doggie Rescue today to meet the short-listed dogs. It was so nerve wrecking for both of us. How do you choose one dog out of a few? How can you reject any dog? We knew that the process was not going to be easy for the two of us.

Monika brought out Gorgeous first - a gentle, timid little gal. She told us to bring Bheemar and Gorgeous for a short walk. It is supposed to help us see if the doggies warm up and get along with each other.

:) It was a disaster from the start. As usual Bheemar got excited and tried to play with Gorgeous. She did not enjoy the bouncy bubbly Bheemar at all. He was too much a pain for her and she was too dainty for him. She snapped at him almost immediately and they kept their distance from each other for the rest of the walk. Sigh!

Monika listened carefully to our observation and suggested another doggie called Homer. Homer? Why Homer? All I could think of was the very annoying and disgusting Homer Simpson.

Anyway, Monika left with Gorgeous and returned with a scruffy brown doggie with bright brown eyes and a tail that wagged non-stop. He was a little timid initially but Bheemar and Homer hit it off almost instantly! Yippee!!!!!

By the time we were back from the walk, we knew he was the one and we were ready to settle the paperwork and whisk him home. We paid up and completed the paperwork but unfortunately, Monika told us that we'll have to wait to take him home. We had to first obtain a written permission from the Strata of the townhouse that we'll be moving to. How sad!!!!

Oh well! It was just our luck that the Strata has been taking it's own sweet time to provide us with that letter. It was requested for on the 21st of July and it has almost been about two weeks now! The take it EZ policy in OZ! Grrrr.....

So we left the place, leaving the fella behind. I'm still not sure when we'll be able to bring him home and he's already being missed very much by us...

Oh and...I'm definitely changing his name! Anyway, he doesn't exactly respond to Homer. He's been at Doggie Rescue for about two months now and it must be a new name that he's not used to yet. So....what should the new name be........

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

SHIOK COMPANY

Since coming to OZ, I've often reflected on how I should have spent more quality time with my family and friends in S'pore. I was always too busy working or too tired to make time for those very important people. It was only when I no longer had the luxury of catching up with them as and when I wish did I realize that my priorities were a little screwed.

Thanks to the lessons taught by months of separation, I no longer take such time with loved ones for granted. Hence it is no wonder that when Krishna & Ranjini decided to visit us for a couple of days, I was so over the moon! Hehehe!

Krishna is Mohan's friend from SP and is living with his wife Ranjini in Wollongong about a 2-hour drive away from our place. Although I've known both of them only for a few months now, I've grown pretty close to them. A lovely couple who are calm, sincere, well-spoken and very helpful. It is just so nice to have such people in the world.

Of course, there is yet another added bonus - this couple likes dogs! Hahaha! They put up with Bheemar and treat him real good.....well, like a baby too.

As I was saying, they came over on Thursday. Just having them around to chit chat and laugh with was such a blessing. It was also good to see Mohan having some fun besides work and TV. Ranjini & I stayed up all of Thursday night talking while the boys slept...well, in different rooms.
Having a girlfriend close by is an absolute bliss =)

Saturday night was spent playing mindless hangman games. Honestly, mindless...the boys came up with 'International Slogan' such as Malaysia boleh and names of actresses such as Disco Shanti. Sigh! Yet, it was a night of laughter. It was definitely a night to remember.

Krishna & Ranjini - Such shiok company! Thanks guys!