Thursday, April 30, 2009

COLD REVELATION

It's getting cold here. The weather I've been dreading has finally arrived - my 1st Autumn.

Well, the afternoons are still quite comfy....thank god!!! With temper
ature at 16 deg C and wind at 34km/h, I am able to enjoy the warmth of the sun. It's great to get wrapped up in my sweater and take a good long walk with Bheemar right smack at the hottest time of the day - 12p.m.

However the nites aren't exactly as kind. They are getting increasingly challenging. Wearing thick jackets are no longer helping and we got out our portable heater two nights ago. We've also s
tuffed 2 comforters in a single duvet. Nonetheless, I find the wee hours a little too chilly for my liking.

It was the same this morning when I woke up at about 5 to turn up the
heater... and that was when I found Bheemar sleeping, shivering in the cold. He was all cuddled up between the two of us on top of the duvet and yet, he was shivering. I had to put him under the duvet and hug him for quite a while before he stopped shivering.

So everyone, contrary to what we have been told about dogs’ ability to withstand very cold weather, they do feel cold even at 18 deg C despite their thick fur.

This revelation got me thinking about the people who leave their dogs in the backyard all the time. The dogs are left there even during rainy seasons or winter, often without any warm bedding or kennel.

When you ask these people if it wouldn't be too cold for the dogs, they'll tell you stuff like, "Oh that's what we've always done," or "Everyone does that." The one I heard most recently was "Nature knows! Nature has provided them with the ability to withstand such cold weather."

RIGHT!

Sometimes, I just can’t help but get annoyed by these “Nature knows” arguments. I believe that they are simply people’s way of shedding responsibility for their dogs’ wellbeing and avoiding any guilt for doing so. Cold!

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

MY FIRST:)


My first blog entry ever! Yes, this is long overdue :) but I'm happy I've finally gotten down to it.


My life has taken some huge turns and it's been about 7 months since I've moved down under. My biggest challenge since I've arrived has been coping with being so physically distanced from my family & friends.

As of now, I've missed 2 weddings, birth of a friend's baby, loads of birthdays, movies, dinners & a funeral. Yes, I've not been there. Not been there to laugh nor cry with my loved ones.

I've also been unable to share my life with them. I'm staying in a beautiful rented house here but it's empty of their warmth, love & laughter. I have an absolutely lovable dog in my life but he has not cuddled up to my parents or the rest of the family.

I guess this blog is more than just a record of my life. It's my way of keeping my loved ones in touch with my thoughts, feelings, experiences and life. It's my way of reaching out to them.

Missing all of you everyday...